Originally posted by UntamedSpirit
Maybe it is your delivery of the question, prompted by your curious nature...
Yes.. I guess it just hit me wrong, Passing... I had just read through the "Why, oh why" thread, and then when I opened THIS one, it just kinda really hit me wrong. Guess the smartest thing for me to do was not hit the keyboard right off, but sleep on it. Try do do that a lot, but fall into it still at times..
I'm curious about a lot of things, too. But I do attempt to find a noncondescending way to ask.. if I can't come up with one, I don't ask at all. Guess we're all just different that way.
I keep my smokes IN the fridge, as Untamed mentioned above, but Hubby always throws his on top.. never gave it much thought. Guess he knows just where to find 'em that way.
And yes, while I agree about the cake thing, I just would have asked differently. I don't judge folks on these petty things.. I'd be tickled that I was invited for cake. Ppl are all brought up differently, and I respect that. While I might do sth. differently than they, I don't look down on them for how they might do it.
I have found that "class" is sth. that has more to do with the CHARACTER of a person than with what they display for show. It can't be "learned", "practiced" or "demanded". It's a very natural and intrinsic part of the person, and it shows THROUGH that person while being unaware of it themselves.