Birth control update....

  1. Well those who have read and replied to my other post on birth control.....wow I really should have listened to you guys. I guess you have some telepathic powers or something. So to explain....my boyfriend who refused to pay birth control broke up with me tonight...we've been fighting on and off a lot and even were on a break for a bit but then agreed that we both wanted to work it out and not let two years go down the drain. Well he calls me up tonight and lets me know he doesn't want to be with me that now is not a good time and maybe down the road we can be together. I told him that will never happen b/c I made a promise to myself that I would never get back with an ex....I have never known anyone to get back with an ex and their relationship work out. Oh well I just keep telling myself I'll meet a nice resident or doctor next year in clinicals and life will be peachy. But I just wanted to say thanks to all those who gave their great advice.....hell I should have listened to you and kicked him to the curb myself! I will definitely just grow from this experience. Thanks for listening!
    ~Kerry~
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  2. 15 Comments

  3. by   GraceyB
    Sorry that your relationship is over. My theory is "There is a reason why he is an X' Concentrate on your studies and lean on friends as you need to. Of course we are all here!
  4. by   ShandyLynnRN
    Originally posted by kcsunshyn8
    I have never known anyone to get back with an ex and their relationship work out.

    *** I can back up THAT one!!! lol. Married twice to the same guy, around 3 years each time.... I am now happily divorced, although it did take a while to get over. Hang in there.


    Oh well I just keep telling myself I'll meet a nice resident or doctor next year in clinicals and life will be peachy.

    *****ummm, not NECESSARILY peachy.


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  5. by   sunnygirl272
    Aww....sweetie...that sucks....no words of wisdom...other than i 'd advise to steer clear of the docs and residents....
  6. by   PennyLane
    So sorry Kerry. I agree that usually getting back together with an ex doesn't work out. My boyfriend and I had been living together for 2 years when we broke up, and I moved back to MD. Now, almost three years later, we're "together" although apart, seeing each other about once a month. We've both come a long way emotionaly and maturity-wise.

    Hang in there...it gets better.
  7. by   SmilingBluEyes
    Sorry for your breakup but you may go from bad to worse if you date a resident or doctor....rofl ---just kidding--- (well almost, part of me says I am serious). Want my advice? (probably not but here it is): See to your own growth, development and life and do not look too hard for a mate. You will bring much more to a future relationship and be much more likely to attract the right person this way, if you are self-assured and educated yourself. The right one is out there but you have to let it happen naturally.
  8. by   kids
    Wow, sorry it has turned out the way it has.
  9. by   nurseman
    Sorry to about your break up.
    If you are ever make it up to Ontario I will buy you those drinks.... To help you get over you loss.
  10. by   hapeewendy
    ah friend, I'm sorry this had to happen to ya , I feel for ya girl, as someone relatively recently single again it can be lonely sometimes,but look at it this way ...... you deserve to have someone who puts you first, makes your happiness his priority and is willing to discuss the grown up issues of relationships and life in general...
    consider the source and rise above it...
    each person we date teaches us something about ourselves, and about what we want from a potential partner...
    lesson learned? you bet!
    *hugs*
  11. by   kcsunshyn8
    Thanks guys for all your optimisitic replies. Hopefully I'll be able to sleep tonight....I just need to look on the bright side. Good night everybody!
    ~kerry~
  12. by   Lausana
    ((Kerry)) Sorry to hear how that turned out, we'll be here when you need us Better days are ahead, promise
  13. by   mark_LD_RN
    kerry sorry .. but its probably for the best
  14. by   RNonsense
    ((Kerry)) So sorry to hear. I agree with the above posts here. Take care of yourself!

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