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go immediately to OBHeather's thread titled "Girl Power" and beat the living crap out of those "bananas" there. Trust me......you'll love it so much you'll become addicted to it like I have become addicted to it!
I have been through a divorce from a man I was married to for over 18 years......and three children were born of that marriage. He thought it was okay to have his "cake and eat it too".....had a mistress who knew about me (they worked together)........she had been divorced before herself and left with one child of her own to raise so she knew all the ropes about how to handle the end of a marriage.......so the kids and I lost out big time financially
leave your home because he can get you for "abandoning the marriage". Do NOT ever give a man a reason for building HIS CASE against you
. Pack his shick and put his stuff outside on the back porch, or in the front lawn for all I care. Change the locks on your home, and stay put while you THINK THINK THINK
about your next SANE
move. Do NOT act out of anger......anger only ends up destroying you and filters down to the children. You don't want that do you? Of Course you don't. Just do what Cheerfuldoer tells you to do, and things will ALWAYS go in your favor. I've been there where you are and know the ropes.......just like my ex's mistress knew the ropes to cover their azz and leave me and the kids high and dry. When you learn from the "devil himself", you know what to do to make him the worm.....who squirms.....not you and the kids. TAKE CHARGE......TAKE COMPLETE CHARGE OF YOUR SENSES
and everything will work out exactly to the best interest of your kids and yourself. He will regret he ever breathed in your direction.
My current husband
may or may not be having an affair. I have NO PROOF WHATSOEVER OF THIS.......just wondering why his well is so dank dry lately.
We get along EXCEPT FOR SEX
! I want it.....he doesn't want it as much as I do......he's a once a month guy.....twice if I'm lucky
And.....BTW......men will deny deny deny.....even when presented with proof.....like I had on my EX.......he denied.......even had the gall to tell the judge the guy in the photo with "his mistress" wasn't him. And boy.......THAT pizzed the judge off big time!
We have no kids, so I can do whatever is best for me in this situation, and I do NOT allow him to talk me into doing anything I don't want to do. You.....have your children to protect. I'd like for you to email me....send me your email address via my "PM" and I will email you from my personal email box. I've got LOTS
to share with you to help you before ditso comes home to you and the kids. Meanwhile.....breathe......keep breathing.....and whatever you do.......DON'T OWN YOUR HUSBAND'S BEHAVIOR.....IT'S HIS......ALL HIS......YOU HAVE NOTHING TO FEEL GUILTY ABOUT!!!