oooohhh.....have I got a recipe for YOU!!!
I not only had to kick my first husband out, I had to prosecute him. He got a slap on the wrist for it. I hated men.
I didn't even date for 18 months. Then I refused to have much to do with any men at all. I decided that if God didn't personally talk to me about a man, the "relationship" was toast.
Five years later, I'm sitting in a bar, staring at a hunk who looked like one of the Chippendales....daydreaming....while we chatted.
Suddenly, this enormous feeling of peace
spread through me, and I heard a quiet voice say, "You can have a relationship with him if you want."
I was so freaked (I was in a bar! I was drunk! I was either losing my mind or---could it be? God just told me that this guy was not too young, not too cute, for me).
I didn't go out of the house for three weeks.
He called me one morning when I was getting the kids ready for school to ask me out. We went out and basically have been inseparable ever since.
So I'm naturally all for praying for the right guy or girl. It worked for me, and that was 13 years ago. :kiss --God Bless!
PS. God only talked to me one other time in my life, just so you know that I'm not the type to hear voices.