So my ex fiance is now dating my ex best friend. - page 2

Found out today. Way to twist the knife. I cannot believe how they could possibly do this to me. I me what a prick. What a bunch of pricks people I though were my friends. I just can't believe it. ... Read More

  1. by   honeyforasalteyfish
    Quote from SnowShoeRN
    Gavin, for what it's worth I had a very similar thing happen to me about 10 years ago. It took a solid 2 years for me to accept it and while I no longer hold anger toward them, I have no wish to be friends with either of them. I absolutely advocate finding a paid professional. Hang in there.
    Thanks, but I am over it. It is what it is. I just decided they weren't the people I thought they were.

    Been going out with other people occasionally. I really don't have the time to care.

    I am not going to let it interfer with my goals. I refuse to let my life suffer because of the decisions of other people.

    So I let it go.
  2. by   NurseEmmy
    A lot of people suck. Sometimes we just don't see it right away and sometimes we don't see it for years. I have a handful of friends and that's more than plenty.
    I have found I tend to expect people to treat me the way I would/do treat them, and that seems to be a standard most can't keep.

    At the end of the day know it's their loss and for the best. Who wants THOSE kind of people in their life?

    I can add I had something similar happen with my ex and the person whom I had been very close friends with for many years. I got the last laugh as that relationship was a train wreck from the get go.
  3. by   Cherisse.gio
    I know how you feel my "best friend" at the time was hooking up with the guy she introduced me to. The only reason i even found out was because my "best friends" sister told me. That happened last year and i still havent forgiven either of them, which sucks for me because i would like to move on with my life. Needless to say we are not friends anymore there was no way i could recover from that stab in the back. Mind you this was the second time shes done this so yeah im done with her.