Please this is just a vent and I am in complete rage right now!!My boyfriend of 17 years and 3 kids (7,5,2) is a complete jackass! and so is his entire family. Truly they were not raised on earth (part gypsey). They make me want to vomit 90% of the time. He is 33 and a truck driver. He has no plans of marrying me. Says I don't act right! ???!!!i After these years marriage is not in the cards. He got off work Sunday and immediately went to his uncles house 45mins from home. Stayed from 1p to 8am the next day. Left again at 12 noon returned home at 7pm only to leave again at midnight to return at 8am today. I asked to spend time with him and he chose to stay at his uncles. He gets home and nowhas to help his retarded mother move furniture. Mind you she is not helpless and constantly calls him for shtuff like he doesn't have a life. Too much to complain about this manipulating ignorant woman. I go along only to be next to him. Midst conversation, SHE'S HIS EMERGENCY CONTACT!!! What am I chop suey??? And recently I snooped, yes I snooped, in his phone only to find out he asked his cousin for a girl's number!! When confronted he said, just someone different to talk to, flirt. OMG, in raged!! He never got the number. but damn. This man is not affectionate, sex is bismul, selfish (like his moma), constantly complains about everything I do, never compliments, even when I do look pretty. We don't go out anymore (btw im 32). I say why don't we move on separately? You obviously don't love me. He says if "I didn't love you I wouldn't be with you."He's gone on the truck and still feels the need to not be around when he's off. And me, I can't wait to see him, hug, kiss, smell, and just be near him. I love him. Since I was 16. and I know we have grown apart in age and stressors but there is absolutely NO fight in him where I am concerned. Whether I'm sick, depressed, angry, happy, lonely, ANYTHING. I am not the only one that has damaged our relationship. We have stood by each other while each one of us has had a hairbrained bump in the road and we both feel OWED for it. Sorry its long, but I get it. It hurts to be right here, in this spot right now. I'm not playing innocent and there are PLENTY other things but I'm done. One day this lady won't play second fiddle anymore! Where is Dr. Phil when I need him. Sorry and thank you for letting me blow my steam.
Dec 12, '12
Maybe he doesn't want to leave because he doesn't want to be stuck paying child support! Sounds like a typical jerk that many nurses put up with rather than be alone. I don't understand it, I really don't! I know too many nurses that have settled for jerks who mooch off them, use them, disrespect them and worse the poor children trapped with these men their mom can't live without. No matter if he's abusive, drinking, drugs, other women, even a case of frequenting prostitutes and putting literally into bankruptcy but won't leave and can't live without the creep! But the poor children caught in this nightmare is what bothers me the most so I'm tired of hearing about this crap!
Last edit by brandy1017 on Dec 12, '12