Has any female nurse had a crush on a male nurse?

  1. Am I the only nurse who ever had a crush on a male nurse? I work at a skilled nursing facility and this guy used to work there on the PM shift. I used to have a crush on him because he's handsome BUT that's not the only reason why I had a crush on him. I had a crush on him because he's gentleman, has a great personality, and is all around a friendly guy. Whenever I need help with patients who can't speak English and when I need a translator (he's Hispanic), he's there to help me. He's a married guy who's almost in his 40s. I wouldn't wanna date him since I'm in my mid 20s and I don't think that I'm his type. It was more of a school girl crush; of me being infatuated with him. We had the same schedule; working for 4 days and we have the same days off. I was an on call nurse at the time and sometimes I work on the PM shift in another station, sometimes I work during NOC shift on the station he's working at.

    Anyway, I got over it since he doesn't work in our facility anymore. Besides, I wouldn't wanna date him because he doesn't see me that way.

    I had a crush on a male MDS coordinator because he's handsome but he's also a kindhearted man who treats everybody equally. He's sweet, he helps me out when I need it (if I ask him to print me a care plan, he does it). Even though he's my crush, I wouldn't want to date him. I just... don't. He's my co-worker and nothing more. We also have a huge age difference with me being in my mid 20s and him being in his mid 30s.

    I had another crush on a guy when I was still a nursing student. My mom used to work at this small facility and she asked me to get her paycheck. This handsome male nurse gave me my mom's paycheck. I thought he was handsome but that's it. It's nothing serious. It doesn't help the fact that I had a boyfriend at that time. I was flattered that he told my mom that I'm a pretty nurse applying for that job.
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  3. by   elijahvegas
    ...what
  4. by   Davey Do
    Hey, EquinoxSolstice- check out this forum:
    Dating / Relationships | allnurses
    And, good luck to you dealing with your crushes!
  5. by   EquinoxSolstice92
    Quote from Davey Do
    Hey, EquinoxSolstice- check out this forum:
    Dating / Relationships | allnurses
    And, good luck to you dealing with your crushes!
    Look, I don't actually want to date any of my crushes. It's just that... a crush. I don't want it to go anywhere else.
  6. by   EquinoxSolstice92
    Quote from elijahvegas
    ...what
    Didn't you read the title? I asked if anyone else had crushes on a male nurse.
  7. by   meanmaryjean
    Did the part about him being married figure into the 'don't want to date him' equation at all?

    Because crushes are for schoolgirls, not women..
  8. by   Ruby Vee
    Quote from EquinoxSolstice92
    Didn't you read the title? I asked if anyone else had crushes on a male nurse.
    Yes, I read the title -- and I still think it belongs on the dating and relationships board. Your post comes across as very immature.
  9. by   OrganizedChaos
    That escalated quickly.
  10. by   AutumnApple
    Quote from OrganizedChaos
    That escalated quickly.
    And that surprised me this much: (holds right hand up in a zero sign).

    I stopped reading at the highlighted "used to". Seriously. It was enough for me.

    OP, you need to learn introspection. Being over something means not having to say you're over it. At the very least it means not having to bold it.
  11. by   GrumpyRN
    I don't understand the question.

    When this hunk of gorgeousness (AKA me) sashays down the corridors all I hear are gasps and intakes of female (and some male) breath.

    How could the girls NOT have a crush on me? With my chiselled good looks, my perfectly toned body and the 'buns of steel' all kept within a skintight uniform.
  12. by   psu_213
    Quote from meanmaryjean
    Did the part about him being married figure into the 'don't want to date him' equation at all?
    That was my first question too; however, it seems that the main reason seems to be the age reason.

    And, for the record, I read the title, and my first reaction was "what" also.
  13. by   Guy in Babyland
    Quote from GrumpyRN
    I don't understand the question.

    When this hunk of gorgeousness (AKA me) sashays down the corridors all I hear are gasps and intakes of female (and some male) breath.

    How could the girls NOT have a crush on me? With my chiselled good looks, my perfectly toned body and the 'buns of steel' all kept within a skintight uniform.
    I know what you mean. Sometimes management has to keep me hidden from my coworkers. They wouldn't get any work done with all the impure thoughts going through their heads.

    I am starting to realize the real reason that they hired me. Oh well, the curse of the rugedly handsome.
  14. by   Farawyn
    Quote from meanmaryjean
    Did the part about him being married figure into the 'don't want to date him' equation at all?

    Because crushes are for schoolgirls, not women..
    Quote from GrumpyRN
    I don't understand the question.

    When this hunk of gorgeousness (AKA me) sashays down the corridors all I hear are gasps and intakes of female (and some male) breath.

    How could the girls NOT have a crush on me? With my chiselled good looks, my perfectly toned body and the 'buns of steel' all kept within a skintight uniform.
    I crush on you both.

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