I just got certified as a CNA. I am going for nursing, still in pre-nursing while I am eligble to apply to my schools
associate in nursing I am going to wait one more semester to take some courses so I can apply to at least half a dozen schools.
Right now its all about me, and I don't want anything to interfer with my goals. Every relationship I have been in since my engagement fell apart a year and a half ago I have prefaced with, I am going for nursing I don't have a lot of time on my hands.
I know its a bad way to start. I am 27, and I live at home again, because its the only way I can afford the cost of school while I am in school, and actually get decent marks. So I am not exactly a catch.
I suffer from depression which lead to two hospitilizations over two years ago. I am stable now, since my 3rd psych finally just put me on anti depressants instead of trying numerous anti psychotics over, and over again to no avail.
My mental health has been in order, and stable for about two years every day I feel a little more normal, a little more optimistic, and any abnormal paranoid thoughts are long gone.
Also my physical health is finally in order after a year, a lung abscess, and developing crohns disease. I am flat broke, and every dime I have goes to school because someday I want a stable job where I can send kids to college I can't exactly do that on my own.
The plus to me is if I find some one when I really have nothing, I know she is a keeper most likely.
The con of course is that I will be 29/30 by the time I am financially stable enough and out of school to start a family. So basically any woman I met would have to wait on me, not a great way to find a gal.
Another con is what if they start demanding my time, its not unreasonable in a relationship, but if I can't finish school within, or close to my time line I am A # 1 screwed. I don't know should I even bother at this point, or wait until I am more financially secure?
Jan 31, '16
You have a lot on your plate. If it stresses you out to "find" someone, then, no, put it on hold for a bit.
If it may relax you, then, why not?
What do you like to do socially, Gavin?
Last edit by Farawyn on Jan 31, '16
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